OUR FAMILY STORY
The
Family of William Bishop, circa 1550.
By
Anthony Armitage Bishop. July 2011.
Anthony died in 2017.
Walter Bishop came to England from Gascony with
Henry II about 1154. He inherited
through his wife…., who she was or what he inherited is not yet certain. His motto was “Pro deo at reclesia.” This means For God and church.
There is a 600 year gap to my 3x great grandfather
William Bishop, who is thought to be descended through 3 generations from
another William Bishop, who married Alice Joanes in Bath Abbey on 25th
June 1632.
Our William lost his first wife Fanny Dore and
remarried on 9th June 1805 in Bath Abbey. This time his bride was Diana Harwood
who had been born in 1777 in Hurst in Berkshire. At that time he was stated to be an inn
keeper in Stall Street in Bath. It seems
the inn was the Angel or the White Heart, both owned by Eleazer Pickwick,
grandson of the Mr (Moses) Pickwick immortalised in “Pickwick Papers”. Mr. Pickwick was very successful in business,
running coaches between Bath and London.
William and Diana Bishop had 15 children. Several girls died young, and are buried with
their parents in Bathwick cemetery (14BAW).
William died in 1861 leaving £45,000, so he too was successful.
There were 4 boys.
The eldest son was William, born in 1817; he emigrated to New Zealand and was on one of the first 8
immigrants. He arrived there in 1842 and
set up in Wellington as a chemist at the junction of Ingestre and Cuba
Streets. (Ingestre St. is now called
Vivian St). He married Ann Fyfe
in Nelson in 1844. They had 7 sons, (the
second son Henry James died in infancy in Sydney Australia), William was a
shipping agent and George was a solicitor. There were 4 more which you will
find on the website. They also had 4
daughters. William and Ann are buried in
Bolton St. cemetery; their grave escaped the bulldozers when a motorway was
built right through there.
The second son James, born in 1819 appears to have
been a bit of a spendthrift, as his father stated in his will, “He has lost all
value of money”. He married Harriett Honey and became a
grocer in London.
The third son John born 1821 went to St. Ives in
Huntingdonshire (now Cambridgeshire) with his two
eldest sisters. He became an ironmonger,
and the girls both married ironmongers in that town, named John and Thomas Ulph
and raised large families. John left
there in 1846, married Anne Frances Clabburn and became a partner with
Charles Barnard in the iron foundry in Norwich, which became famous for its
wrought iron work and for inventing wire netting. They gave a set of wrought iron gates to
Edward VII, which hang at the entrance of Sandringham in Norfolk
The youngest son was my great great grandfather
George, born in 1822. He also went to
Norwich, where he met Frances Havers, who with her elder sister ran a
drapers shop at 5 The Haymarket. The
fine carved fireplace from this address is now in the Brideswell Museum with
samples of ironwork from Barnard and Bishops iron foundry. They married in 1851 in St. Peter Mancroft
Norwich and had 8 children.
Frances was one of a well known Norwich family, in the
ironmongery trade. Another line of her
family descends to Sir Michael Havers, and you will have seen his
grandson Nigel on TV. There are 92 trees
in the Havers family (wood!)
George and Frances’ eldest son was Charles Edward who
was born in 1852. He entered holy orders
and became curate to Rev George Robinson at St Augustines
Liverpool. He married his vicar’s second
daughter, Henrietta Octavia in 1884 at Bilton in Yorkshire (her Brother Arthur’s
parish) He later had his own parish at St. John’s Everton, Liverpool where my
father was born on 22nd May 1887.
My father was the eldest son in a family of 4 sons and
6 daughters (2 of which died young). His
brother Hugh was a teacher and lost a leg in the First World War, he had one
daughter Pat, now a widowed grandmother living at Banstead in Surrey. Arthur the next brother was killed in World
War 1.Forbes the youngest was too young even to volunteer. He became a Cowley Father and spent most of
his life as a missionary at Bombay in India, looking after children of leper
parents. He returned to England after
handing over the mission to Indians. He
died at St. Johns House in Oxford, where he was ministering to others at the
age of 88 on a Zimmer frame. He was my
Godfather.
Now the girls – May stayed at home, helping with
parish work and later to look after her parents, both of whom went blind, and
lived to about 90.Grace trained as a dispenser and married Victor Dow
who was a school master and took holy orders late in life. They had 2 sons and one daughter. The boys served in the merchant navy and were
torpedoed and taken prisoner in the war.
(Details of their families are in the Dow tree).
Next was Mary who was a physiotherapist at St Thomas’
Hospital in London. Last was Clare, who
helped my father when he was in need.
Despite the break in her career, she became one of the senior sister
tutors in the country and a national examiner working at the Royal Northern
Hospital. (Claire Rainer was one of her
students). She lived with us for about 3
years at Perranporth before ending her days in St. John’s Oxford with her
brother Forbes.
My father was educated in Liverpool. His mother and all his sisters were educated
at Casterton School for daughters of the clergy in Westmoreland. His Mother was there with the Bronte sisters. My father was a doctor/GP. He was part of a medical practice in Melton
Mowbray, with three separate surgeries.
He practised with Dr. Tibbles in Nottingham Street, but actually lived a
few miles away in the village of Asfordby.
Here he set up home with his first wife Dorothy Hurton, whom he
married in St. Georges, Hanover Square in London in 1916.
Dorothy’s father was my grandfather’s organist at St.
Johns Everton in Liverpool. This
marriage was a chapter of disasters.
They had three boys, twins who both died at or near birth, and another
that also died during the Spanish flu epidemic in 1914-18. Dorothy also died.
My father served in Flanders with the R A M C during the 1914/18 war. Being a doctor he had the choice of either
wearing the Red Cross on his arm or carrying a pistol. He chose the latter, and used it on only one
occasion to kill a rat that had crawled on to a soldiers sleeping body during the
night, and had a firm grip on the poor fellow’s nose.
My father was invalided out of the trenches with
double pneumonia, and spent his convalescence with his uncle, Rev Armitage Robinson
who was at that time Dean of Westminster.
In Westminster Abbey near the Unknown Soldier’s tomb, there is a little
pew high up on the wall, with direct access to the deanery. That is where he worshipped for several
weeks.
His uncle was Lord High Almoner to King George V, the
person in charge of the Maundy Money, which the sovereign distributes to the
poor on Maundy Thursday each year. One
“purse” or set of silver coins 1, 2, 3 & 4p is minted for each year of the
sovereign’s age, but in 1931 my birth year, an extra set was minted and I still
have it.
He eventually returned to Dr. Tibble’s practice at
Melton Mowbray. His great interest was
surgery, so he practised by day and studied by night on a correspondence course
with the Royal College of Surgeons at Edinburgh, where he gained his
fellowship.
He was a widower for about ten years. He married my mother, Phyllis Marianne Willis
at St. Mary’s Bromley in November 1928, with Malcolm Sergeant at the
organ. She was a real “copper top”, but
suddenly became snow white at the age of 30, before she married him. She was born in the same year as him
1887. His birthday was in May and hers
in August, so they were upset when people said he was marrying someone a lot
older than himself. They were so happy,
that she told one of her sisters “it is too good to last”. How true it was.
I was born in the War Memorial Hospital at Melton on
Friday 13th March 1931, and she was soon diagnosed as having cancer
of the gallbladder, and she was dead by August.
It was a merciful release, because she had been out of her mind with
pain for the last two months. Her body
lies in Thorpe Rd Cemetery, Melton Mowbray.
Dorothy’s grave is in Asfordby, but is unmarked as my father at that
time could not afford to do so. I suspect that the tree boys are there
somewhere, but they are not recorded in the parish records. This time having a
little baby, my father was in difficulty, until his sister Clare gave up her
position as Theatre Sister at Leicester Royal Infirmary, and came to look after
us. This she did for just over two
years.
On September 6th 1933, my father married
Hilda Mary Davies at Wistanstow, they honeymooned in North Wales. They
were very happy together for 22 years.
We used to holiday each year at Cromer in Norfolk and were called back
from there, on the outbreak of the Second World War. During the war the three old doctors Fagg,
Dixon and my father carried on the practice, which normally had six partners
and a student.
He worked long hours and seldom had a day off, but
occasionally escaped to play a round of golf.
This he found a great relaxation but as in most things
he had to excel. He normally played off
a handicap in single figures. He also
loved singing. He had a great bass voice
and always took the bass lead in all the amateur Gilbert and Sullivan shows
which were directed by Sir Malcolm Sergeant who was at that time the youngest
choirmaster in England. He sang in the church choir and was a founder member of
Toch H with Rev Tuby Clayton. He was an
examiner for St. John’s Ambulance and Trustee of Melton Mowbray Town Estate.
When the Health Service was proposed he went on a
course to find out all about it for the practice, of which he was by now senior
partner. The sleeping arrangements were
far from ideal; he caught a bad attack of bronchitis. When he came home he carried on working. During one night he had a bad coughing spell,
and snapped two ribs. Still he worked on;
until he was in such pain he literally crawled upstairs to bed. Later he went up to London for an operation
to remove the ends of the broken ribs from his left lung.As
time went on it was apparent that he had Padgett’s disease (brittle bones) and
his partners advised him to retire.
Having holidayed at Newquay since the war, my parents
decided to go there to live. By now I
was a farm pupil, so I followed. When my
father was 68 he had a coronary thrombosis and the damage to his left lung
proved too much for his heart. He died
on the day we moved into Marazanvose Farm.
He was proud of his first grandson Michael born just eight months
before, and he enjoyed bouncing him on his lap in bed.
My father had studied general medicine at Liverpool,
and whilst there he used to be friendly with the holder of the world grass
track cycle record, and was only a very close second. He also was hooker in the university rugby
team. More detail of his family follows
later. His first and third wives both
knew my mother, she and Hilda were student nurses at the London Hospital, where
he met them.
I know very little about the Hurton family except that
Dorothy had a brother, Dick who took us around London at night to see the
lights. This was during a visit to
London to celebrate my 21st birthday.
His third wife, Hilda Mary Davies, had a
younger sister and 4 brothers. Their
parents farmed at Church House Wistanstow, Nr Craven Arms. Cyril was eldest son, his wife was
Helen. They had a son Geoff who married Mary;
they had 2 daughters and lived in Esher in Surrey. Geoff had twin sisters, Helen and Honour,
both emigrated to marry Rhodesians. (Rhodesia is now Zimbabwe). They both had families out there. Geoff and Helen have since died.
Bernard was next He married Dorothy Galloway who
inherited a string of grocery shops in Birmingham. He was a farmer at Chadwich Manor near
Bromsgrove, now right beside the M5. He
lost his shorthorn dairy herd twice was next.
due to foot and mouth eradication. He helped found Worcester Farmers, and became
its managing director (for no pay so that he wouldn’t have to take orders!) He
was a keen member of the National Farmers Union, becoming Worcestershire county
chairman. Their first son John married
Marjorie and had one son Peter. After
farming they retired to Ludlow. John and
Marjorie have since died.
Uncle Bernard’s other son was Kenneth, who married
Janet Penlington. They live just outside
Ledbury where Kenneth is on the local council, and has been mayor twice. He runs a farming consultancy and accounting
business. They also have some lovely
Swedish chalets which let through Haven Holidays. They have a son Roger and two daughters, Emma
and Helen. Uncle Jack was next, he was
killed in world war one.
The last brother was Roy who married Joan
Edmonds. They had one son Allan. He farmed at High Edsar Farm Ewhurst in
Surrey. Roy caught polio and died, Allan
carried on the farm for a while later taking Milland Farm near Liphook, selling
milk from his Guernsey herd on his retail milk round. Later he moved to Lifton in Devon, and went
in for landscape gardening. He died of a
heart attack at work. His widow Sue and
his twin children Hannah and Paul (from his first marriage) all live in the
Surrey region.
Hilda’s sister was Doris; she married Tom Watkins
a Welsh hill farmer who like many of his kinfolk had a lovely top tenor
voice. They moved to Broadward Hall near
Clungunford. This is a Welsh border
property with battlements, but not really a fortress. Dick their son farmed there running store
cattle and sheep with his son Richard.
Dick has since died.
Dick had one sister, Dorothy; she married Noel Blair
who was in confectionery. He is retired
and they live at Says Farm near Churchill a few miles south of Bristol. They had two sons, David who was killed in a
motor accident and Michael, who was his own business near London. Dorothy was a keen horsewoman.
My granny, Edith Davies, was still playing the
piano at the age of 92 even though blind.
She could play all morning without repeating herself. She often played to the “old people” as she
called them, at St. Johns Ambulance day centre in St. Michaels Rd.
Newquay. She was the oldest person in
the room!
Before marrying “Grampy” as we called him, she was
Edith Poole. One of her brothers
was the Poole in the auctioning firm Morris Barker and Poole and another
brother, Geoff, was a chemist in Birmingham, who paid to replace Uncle Bernard’s
second herd lost to foot and mouth. A
third brother Tom was an ironmonger near Craven Arms market. Her two unmarried sisters Emma and Kate lived
at “the Cedars” at Felhampton near Craven Arms.
WILLIS
You will have noticed that I have said nothing yet
about my Mother’s family. Her maiden
name was Phyllis Marion Willis.
Her father Walter was a rep for a brewery in Essex, later becoming
manager. He died quite young leaving her
mother with a boy and four girls and virtually no income. Several of the children had to go into a children’s
home.
Her grandfather, Dan Willis farmed Home Farm,
Theydon Garnon, Essex, near to where the M25 and M11 cross today. I have traced the family in Essex back to
1746. They worked their way up from
agricultural labourers to farmers over several generations. Dan’s wife Caroline Cooper was born in the
Whitechapel area in London. Her father
was a pawnbroker.
My mother’s only brother, Stanley, emigrated
to New Zealand and married a New Zealand girl called Rhoda Redwood. They had two sons and one daughter. The older son Alex was killed in a flying
accident in Canada when serving in the New Zealand Air Force during the Second
World War.
Walter, the second son, served for 5 years in the New
Zealand Navy and stayed in that service until 1968, when he went to University
to train as a town planner. He worked in
that profession for 20 years. Whilst in
Britain, he married a British WREN officer, Doreen Wilson, in 1948. They have 2 sons. Simon is a deep sea yachtsman and has a sail
making business in the Bay of Islands.
Richard is a vet in Cambridge, New Zealand. He has 2 daughters Sarah and Louise and a son
Thomas.
Their sister Gwen married a sheep farmer, Ian Mc Phee,
now deceased, who had a large ranch near Hastings on the North Island, which is
now run by his son John. Gwen was killed
by a hit and run driver taking their children to visit her parents in 1966.Grace
was my mother’s only sister to marry.
Gwen and Ethel the other 2 sisters, lived with
their mother in Bromley. Grace died in
1933. She had married Bob Ward-Jones, a
chemist in 1911. They had one daughter
Margaret. She married Arthur Townend in
1941 and they had a son John who is an accountant. He has married and has a
son.
COLLARD & DENNE
My mother’s mother, Gertrude Collard, was a farmer’s
daughter from Upper Garrington (opposite Hewlett’s Zoo near Canterbury in
Kent). The Collard family farmed large farms
near Canterbury. I was lucky in
contacting a man in Chislet parish who had a copy of the Collard family tree,
going back to the early 1600s at St. Nicholas at Wade in Kent.
John Collard, an early member of the family
distinguished himself when fighting against the Moors in Spain, by being the
first to scale the ladder when storming their castle. This explains the crest of a lion climbing a
ladder above a shield bearing the heads of 3 Moors that he killed.
Collard and Denne were two of the larger families in
Kent and are very intertwined on our website. There is still a lot of debate
going on regarding the older sections of both families where accurate records
are elusive.
MY OWN HISTORY
Without boring you I hope, I feel I should add a
little about myself. After my mother’s
death, I was looked after by a nurse for a while until my Auntie Clare came to
keep house for us.
When I was considered old enough, I had a governess
(Miss Hodgetts). I took great joy in
plaiting her hair, which reached nearly to her waist. One maid I remember well was Ella Ploughman,
the daughter of patients at Asfordby, she and I were great pals. Two other pals were the 2 Sealyhams dogs,
Pogo and Trixi, whose portraits still hang in my son Philip’s home. Pogo eventually went blind, and we had to
keep furniture in the same position or he would collide with it. When he was younger he always kept guard
under my cot. You could only approach if he approved.
Later I was sent to the junior house at Oakham School
in Rutland, under a giant of a housemaster, Mr. Milligan. He was 6ft 7ins. I can still remember my father coming to
school to see me swim my first length of the school outdoor baths. It was at Oakham that I first heard the
bagpipes. What a glorious sound as the
piper practised in the school playing field across the lane. I forget now why, but I was not very happy
there, may be because I was disobedient and often got the cane! I tried another school, Trent College at Long
Eaton. To my father’s disappointment I was
no sportsman except at Rugby, where I had to play in the same position my
father held in Liverpool University team, hooker. I joined the Officer Training Corps, and
enjoyed rifle shooting. My favourite pastime was naming trees. Trent has over 400 different varieties of
trees and shrubs. I got up to 250 names and
then ran into trouble when there were only Latin names left.
I sat the Oxford & Cambridge Certificate (the
equivalent of the CSE), passing History, Chemistry, Physics, Maths & Metal Work and amazed
everyone by getting credits in both English Literature & Language, because
I am still hopeless at spelling today.I was fond of
singing in the choir. I was fortunate to
be at school with boys who had been head choristers in Kings College Cambridge,
St. George’s Chapel Windsor, St. Paul’s Cathedral London, and Chester
Cathedral. What a choir!
When I left school I went as a farm pupil to Mr.
Charles Whalley at Top Farm, Bearston near Market Drayton. This farm carried a large pedigree Friesian
dairy herd. When my father retired I
moved down to Altarnun near Launceston.
There I looked after an Ayrshire dairy herd until they had to be sold
due to the owner’s bad health. This time
I moved to Coswarth just outside Newquay, a completely different farm with a
lot of arable land with some cattle and a large flock of sheep.
My last move was to join the Eustice family at
Trethiggey, near Newquay, which had South Devon cattle. I well remember Ron Eustice, who was
disabled, going in between two bulls that were fighting, with a horse whip to
part them, a thing I would not have dared to do, and yet none of the family
would go near a cow which had new born twins, except on a tractor. They were amazed when I went into the field,
put one calf across my shoulders and drove the cow and other calf in with no
trouble at all. I was not brave, just foolhardy!
After this I decided to spread my wings, and
volunteered to join the RAF. I had
several bouts of tonsillitis which culminated in rheumatic fever, which meant a
month in Ely Hospital, followed by several months on light duties at RAF Henlow
before returning to square bashing. On
completing this I studied Ground Radar as a mechanic. When I eventually mastered that, at the
second attempt, I was posted to RAF Trerew near Newquay. Whilst I was there I ran the coffee swindle,
and went down to Trerew Farm for some milk, where I met Betty Pascoe who became
my wife.
I finished my term in the forces and went to work for
my brother in law, Dick House, at Trevornick, living in a rented cottage near
Zelah. I was on the lookout for a farm
of my own; presently a chance came up at Marazanvose, the other side of
Zelah. It was only 38 1/2 acres, and I
tried a bit of everything, but eventually settled on Friesian cows, rearing
what heifers I could.
When my landlord died I was offered the chance to buy
the farm. My brother in law Dick lent me
cash, a few years later I sold that farm and bought a larger one at Hendra near
Rose, between Cubert and Perranporth.
Later I bought an adjoining farm bringing my acreage up to 145. I was able to rear all my heifers and grow
corn to help feed them.
Michael and Philip were both born whilst we were at
Marazanvose. Michael did not want to
follow me in farming; he worked at Ladbrokes holiday camp near Perranporth, and
ran their fish and chip shop. So I decided
to sell the farm and buy the Grantham Astor Hotel, a decision I have never
regretted.
We moved in November 1972, and opened for
Christmas. Michael went to Camborne
catering college for that winter and I joined him until I had to return to see
to bookings after Christmas. At that
time only 4 bedrooms were ‘ensuite’. We
added 6 folding showers and opened again in April 1973, using Smiths Happiways
coaches. I had purchased the hotel from
Smiths.
The following winter we amalgamated the bar and
ballroom to make the highland ballroom.
We also had to dig a cellar, as during our first dinner function, I
remember us rolling a barrel of beer through the dining room. Michael and I dug the cellar BY HAND. It soon proved too small so was doubled in
size. It was doubled yet again in later
years to accommodate real ale.
There were constant improvements, including the
purchase of the Gables next door, which was joined into the hotel. The first Christmas those rooms were used,
the guests had to be issued with umbrellas as we were not allowed to knock
through in time.
The old Grantham Astor (once two properties), had 54
bedrooms. The number varied up and down
over the years as ensuite facilities were provided and ground floor rooms
built.
Other
additions to the Grantham Astor included purpose built skittle alley and
additional rooms added to the rear of the property. We retired to Perranporth in the late 80’s
where we have lived ever since and were always pleased to welcome friends, old
and new. Eileen now has Alzheimer’s is in professional care as my health deteriorated.
At the time of writing she will be 90 in two weeks.
MY GRANDMOTHERS FAMILY
My grandmother, Henrietta Robinson (born 1862)
was the second daughter of my grandfather’s vicar, Rev. George Robinson
in Liverpool. They came to Liverpool
from Keynsham where most of their 13 children were born. Most of her brothers entered the church, some
were missionaries. One, John, wrote the
Hausa dictionary and grammar, another was a doctor in South Africa (Frederick
Austen). He paid for my father’s
education and training in medicine. But
for the war we should have gone to join him.
The most famous brother, whom I mentioned earlier,
Armitage Robinson, was Dean of Westminster. His butler later became head verger there,
for which he got the M.V.O. He organised
the Queen’s coronation. Two sisters were
deaconess. They originally came across
from Hollywood near Belfast in Northern Ireland, where the family had lived for
several generations.
Their mother, Henrietta Forbes, was born at
Hollywood, Northern Ireland, but 3 of her ancestors had been vicars of Drunconrath
for 150 years. Drunconrath is up the
river Boyne from Drogheda. The first of
those vicars had gone across to Ireland from Aberdeenshire in Scotland. His grandfather was second son of 7th
Laird of Tolquhon. This family traces
back to Sir John Forbes who died in 1469. From there it gets complicated and a bit
mythical.
Near Drunconrath the family lived for generations in a
large house called Newstone (twice the size of the church). In the churchyard is the Forbes family
vault. Though not visible from the gate,
when we visited there, I walked straight to it as though I had been there
before.
The second Forbes vicar there married his cousin Anne
Armitage, and there must be something about the Irish air, as they had 23
children. We are descended from their
second son John. His grandson Arthur
also married a cousin, Caroline Armitage, daughter of Whaley Armitage who was
agent for Guys Hospital, running their estates in Herefordshire. They built a house for him and his 12
children called Moraston, near Ross on Wye.
One of those 23 children was my great-grandmother.
The crest used by the hotel is associated with Edward
Haistwell. Elenora his daughter married Whaley Armitage. Whalley
Armitage was part of what I call the Irish line. In researching the Armitage
family I have discovered 5 distinct lines, some of which used a Y instead of I
in their surname.. Some were Quakers and went across
the ‘pond’ and are dispersed throughout Canada and U S A
Edward Haistwell traded with Tsar Nicholas of Russia
and appears to have been paid in silver with which he made our family silver –
hallmarked George IV.
PASCOE
Mainly for the interest of my grandchildren, I have
started tracing the family of my first wife Betty Pascoe. So far I have found a direct line through
Joseph Wills Pascoe, a farmer at Penpoll in the parish of Phillack near
Hayle in West Cornwall, who was born in 1775.
He is mentioned in the book “Pascoes all over the world” by Harry
Pascoe. I believe his father was James
Kempthorne Pascoe who was baptised in Wendron near Helston in 1735. One of his 3 brothers, Erasmus was mentioned
in Gilbert’s History of Cornwall. They were
all born in Mullion. Most of the family
seem to have been farmers all over Cornwall, but there were one or two captains
of sailing vessels trading out of Truro and Hayle, both once active ports.
The name Pascoe, (Pascawe, or Paskow) was originally a
Christian name. They were very prolific,
especially in West Cornwall, where a lot were tin and copper miners, the main
occupation in this county years ago. As mining declined here, they spread
throughout the world as the book title shows.
Betty’s mother was a Mitchell. This family were farmers and previously
miners in the Cubert, Newlyn East, Kenwyn and St. Agnes area. One branch married a Dorothy Webber
whose father was a miller at Gwarnick in St. Allen parish. Mitchell and Webber are substantial liquid
fuel suppliers today, but I have not established a connection so far.
My elder son Michael’s wife is Pat Saxby. I have traced her father’s family to Battle
near Hastings in Sussex, where most were sawyers on a large estate there. Pat’s mother was Rose Brown; her
family came from Potterne and West Lavington near Devizes in Wiltshire. I have found a direct line to Stephen Brown
born in 1683 who married Susannah Sainsbury.
There MIGHT to a connection to the food chain there!
I have much to do before I can offer anything about
the family of Philip’s wife, Elaine Lawton. All I can say is that her mother’s side come
from Ireland, a difficult area to research due to records being burnt prior to
1901. Her father’s family come from
Nottingham and Manchester. I would
welcome facts from any readers in this area.
I was divorced in 1974 and Eileen Lewis, one of my
first guests came back to help me run the hotel. After a civil ceremony in St Austell Registry
Office, we were married in 1980 at St. Columb Minor Church. Afterwards we returned to the hotel for the
reception in an open landau. I was
married in the Forbes tartan and Sheralyn, Eileen’s grand daughter, was her
bridesmaid. Eileen made her bridesmaid’s dress
I retired in 1987 and we moved to Perranporth, where I
am involved in the local church. For a
while I sold Traidcraft (fairly traded products) in about 15 churches in the
neighbourhood and edited the Parish Magazine.
In 1988 Perranporth was flooded and I led the Flood
Prevention Committee, which worked to get a relief scheme installed.
Unfortunately in 2003 Eileen was diagnosed with
Alzheimer’s and for the next seven years I was her 24/7 carer. In 2008 I had a heart attack which
necessitated a triple bypass. Now as I
have developed prostate cancer, Eileen is in a professional care home near here
being very well looked after.
Now that I feel very lonely I have taken a position as
area rep for Release International, who organise prayer for people in over 30
countries who are persecuted for their faith.
As I write this I am preparing to gather family and
friends together to celebrate Eileen’s 90th birthday (14/7/2011).
Unfortunately due to pressure of the Health and Safety
requirements, red tape and rapidly increasing utility bills, my boys decided to
close the hotel and sell it for development in 2008. They are both letting out houses locally.
Mike has also had a heart attack, but had stents
fitted and was home quite soon. He now
has 6 very active grandchildren which he dotes on.
Philip took a course in plumbing and is now qualified.
This helps with his property maintenance and gives him some employment as
well. This will be useful as his
daughter Holly hopes to go to university soon.
For those who are interested there are more detailed
descriptions of the Armitage, Bishop, Collard, Denne, Forbes, Havers, Pascoe,
Robinson and Willis families.